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Betsy Cameron's avatar

Your podcast is a breath of fresh air. Thank you for your wonderful content. I would love to hear your thoughts on how to deal with the issue of vulnerable younger cousins whose older cousin has transitioned. My children were around the age of 10 when their 18 year old cousin transitioned. I come from a progressive, liberal family and the rest of my siblings and their spouses were immediately affirming of this new identity. I was skeptical and turned to the internet to find out more, which was when I found this podcast. I was under a lot of pressure to explain gender identity to my children and have them participate in affirming their cousin's new identity. I was extremely uncomfortable with being compelled to introduce an idea to my young children, one of whom I think is particularly vulnerable to this ideology. The bonds in my family are strong and we all love each other very much but I fear we won't be able to fully heal from the divide that this has caused.

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Mom Of 4 Daughters's avatar

Your podcasts, Q&As, and topic discussions have been immensely helpful as a parent of a trans-identifying daughter. Areas that I would be grateful for more insights on:

1. Impacts on the family (siblings in particular) through all phases of ‘trans’ (social transition, medical, desistance, detransition)

2. De-identified accounts of desistance, detransition from parents or therapists or individuals.

I’ve listened to many of Benjamin Boyce’s interviews with trans or former trans people and they do not seem to speak about family relationships often through their gender exploration. That concerns me - our family of two parents and 4 kids (all girls - third one declared trans at 14 emerging from the pandemic) has always been tight. I hope we can stay together even if our daughter chooses a path we don’t align with.

Thank you

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