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Nancy McDermott's avatar

Heaven is other people (take that Sartre)! I start my day by going to the local Highschool to greet the kids. I and some other locals started doing it during Covid when behavior broke down. We show up to say good morning and to fist bump them and to bring the occasional bag of nutritionally worthless treats.

Just showing up worked like magic, and the disruption pretty much stopped, so we had a discussion, the three of us hard core people, about whether we should go the next year. We decided to just see how it went. That was three years ago. Some kids I just know by sight. Others I know by name. I have grown very attached to the men who turn up, and to the students. My own sons aren’t there any longer, but the school always gives us tickets to the graduation.

I have so enjoyed watching these kids grow up and into their confidence. I have a few special ones who I joke with and one who won’t fist bump (dramatically!) but then gave me a big hug at Christmas.

It’s funny how people you don’t know intimately can matter so much. Now and then I run into one of the kids in the supermarket, and it’s always nice. Makes me get a little lump in my throat when I think of them.

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Lisa's avatar

Just walking every morning. Yes, I'm always listening to gender related podcasts, but I'm moving, getting fresh air, and seeing the seasons gradually change, perhaps allowing me the hope that all this madness will one day end.

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