Premium: How Can I Soften My Child’s Defenses and Help Open Her Mind To Different Ideas?

"I have the kind of child who will do the opposite if I ask her to do something. How do I soften her defense and so she'll open her mind to ideas different than hers? One example is I want to watch the No Way Back film in the family movie night but also worry she'll simply push back, or worse, shut herself tight on this topic."

Sasha & Stella reference a few documentary's in their response:

Trans Kids: It's Time to Talk

http://www.stellaomalley.com/trans-kids-time-to-talk 

The Trans Train :

Part 1: 

Part 2: 

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Part 4: