I assume that when you say, “Sexual awakening can occur in a complicated manor,” that you mean “manner.” But I kind of like the connotations that go with “manor.”
Hi! This might be my first comment. I’ve watched alllllll your stuff. My son is trans and he’s estranged. Sucks. Anyhow Ray Alex Williams gave me a fair bit of peace and acceptance with his AGP content on YouTube. He brings up that autogynophelia and autism share an inwardly directed focus and this hadn’t occurred to me - the co occurrence could definitely be connected - I was thinking that it was just a confusion / mistake, now I’m thinking it’s correlated neurologically. A few other thoughts… I’m willing to bet furies have always existed. Humans have lived with animals - horses, dogs, farm animals, cats - I’m certain furies and other unmentionable stuff absolutely were there and I’ve heard of it from historical accounts. Second - I’m willing to bet that autoandrophelia is a big part of ROGD girls. I live with a trans man and I’m 100% sure he’s autoandro for gay guys and he’s been in a long term relationship with one. I know loads of women all ages who love reading gay male romance porn. Finally, dudes are not mysterious but they are pretty gross (in a “we love them anyway” kind of way). They have way less disgust than women and this makes sense in an evolutionary lens. I suspect the added sex drive and the lower disgust threshold is what we are seeing with their paraphelic behavior. I would not use the word mysterious for it. Shocking, mind blowing, worrisome… but also, in hindsight, not mysterious. It is so hard for women to understand and the young men need adult men to help them navigate this to arrive at a healthy place - but how do we know we can trust the adult men?? It’s quite fraught. And another thing, this is pretty important, Stella started to say it but didn’t finish. I learned from Deborah Soh that it’s not a paraphilia unless it causes distress(or is illegal). What Stella said about all of us having little secret sexy ideas that we explore privately may be right and the thing we have to be saying is what’s a healthy way to explore and what’s a path to suffering? and we don’t know. We don’t know why some people just have fun and are fine and others try it once and lose their whole lives. That’s an important question!
About the difficulty of discussing teenagers becoming sexual. During the early 2000s, there was a counter-movement to sex education in American "red states." Indiana and Alabama were especially notorious in this regard. Coincidentally, at the very same time, the internet and then broadband arrived in both states. So what happened is that young people, in particular young gay men, got all their sexual "education" from pornography, with immediate skyrocketing rates of HIV transmission as a result.
This was a courageous and humble take at exploring male sexuality, kindly and gracefully done.
One key thing not touched on is how much male sexuality varies based on intensity, with high libido a particularly dangerous aspect of adolescence, when there is the lowest awareness and skill level.
With experience comes understanding, acceptance and an ability to more routinely manage everything.
Functional societies will also have a certain aspect of male policing, nurturing but with an implicit message that some things are out of bounds, and may be met with fatal force.
I would be curious for an exploration of mtf transition and childhood trauma, a couple of people I have known had a similar path to transition, autistic traits, shame, gender diversity as a child but coupled with some really rubbish childhood experiences with one or both parents leading to almost the development of a fantasy self (female, I don't want to be my dad, or life would be better as a girl) to escape to and then puberty on top. Transitioning then coming later in life in response to further trauma, almost as a way of not dealing with things and a sort of comfort blanket. I also find it interesting that some men accept that changing to be a woman is their preferred or easier option rather than the very last thing they would do and they seem unaware of the ensuing damage it can do to both themselves and others (although I think gender affirming care isn't helping). I also expect there are many many men who have a sexual fantasy about being a woman, men seem to have sexual fantasies about all sorts of things, mostly it probably stays in their head, being a woman having sex is not that weird, it's when it's an obsession it's a real concern.
I have made this comment on the YT version as well. I don't know if it has any weight, and would like to hear others thoughts, happy to be dismissed.
I think that there is a further distinction to be made with some of the males and that is that there are those that are Sneaky Fuckers as described by John Maynard Smith. They may, as you noted, have AGP trait and use the opportunity that affords to have sexual relationships that may not have been available to them without taking on the character of the less dominate male e.g. Men that set up profiles on Lesbian dating apps. The SJW men that are very vocally supportive of men in womens sports and changing rooms. We are chimps after all.
I assume that when you say, “Sexual awakening can occur in a complicated manor,” that you mean “manner.” But I kind of like the connotations that go with “manor.”
Is that what is called a Freudian typo?
"Complicated Manor" sounds like the worst NBC prime time soap opera of the 80s
That's what happens when you release extra episodes and your eyes go a little bit haywire! Thanks for the catch, we'll fix it!
Hi! This might be my first comment. I’ve watched alllllll your stuff. My son is trans and he’s estranged. Sucks. Anyhow Ray Alex Williams gave me a fair bit of peace and acceptance with his AGP content on YouTube. He brings up that autogynophelia and autism share an inwardly directed focus and this hadn’t occurred to me - the co occurrence could definitely be connected - I was thinking that it was just a confusion / mistake, now I’m thinking it’s correlated neurologically. A few other thoughts… I’m willing to bet furies have always existed. Humans have lived with animals - horses, dogs, farm animals, cats - I’m certain furies and other unmentionable stuff absolutely were there and I’ve heard of it from historical accounts. Second - I’m willing to bet that autoandrophelia is a big part of ROGD girls. I live with a trans man and I’m 100% sure he’s autoandro for gay guys and he’s been in a long term relationship with one. I know loads of women all ages who love reading gay male romance porn. Finally, dudes are not mysterious but they are pretty gross (in a “we love them anyway” kind of way). They have way less disgust than women and this makes sense in an evolutionary lens. I suspect the added sex drive and the lower disgust threshold is what we are seeing with their paraphelic behavior. I would not use the word mysterious for it. Shocking, mind blowing, worrisome… but also, in hindsight, not mysterious. It is so hard for women to understand and the young men need adult men to help them navigate this to arrive at a healthy place - but how do we know we can trust the adult men?? It’s quite fraught. And another thing, this is pretty important, Stella started to say it but didn’t finish. I learned from Deborah Soh that it’s not a paraphilia unless it causes distress(or is illegal). What Stella said about all of us having little secret sexy ideas that we explore privately may be right and the thing we have to be saying is what’s a healthy way to explore and what’s a path to suffering? and we don’t know. We don’t know why some people just have fun and are fine and others try it once and lose their whole lives. That’s an important question!
About the difficulty of discussing teenagers becoming sexual. During the early 2000s, there was a counter-movement to sex education in American "red states." Indiana and Alabama were especially notorious in this regard. Coincidentally, at the very same time, the internet and then broadband arrived in both states. So what happened is that young people, in particular young gay men, got all their sexual "education" from pornography, with immediate skyrocketing rates of HIV transmission as a result.
This was a courageous and humble take at exploring male sexuality, kindly and gracefully done.
One key thing not touched on is how much male sexuality varies based on intensity, with high libido a particularly dangerous aspect of adolescence, when there is the lowest awareness and skill level.
With experience comes understanding, acceptance and an ability to more routinely manage everything.
Functional societies will also have a certain aspect of male policing, nurturing but with an implicit message that some things are out of bounds, and may be met with fatal force.
I would be curious for an exploration of mtf transition and childhood trauma, a couple of people I have known had a similar path to transition, autistic traits, shame, gender diversity as a child but coupled with some really rubbish childhood experiences with one or both parents leading to almost the development of a fantasy self (female, I don't want to be my dad, or life would be better as a girl) to escape to and then puberty on top. Transitioning then coming later in life in response to further trauma, almost as a way of not dealing with things and a sort of comfort blanket. I also find it interesting that some men accept that changing to be a woman is their preferred or easier option rather than the very last thing they would do and they seem unaware of the ensuing damage it can do to both themselves and others (although I think gender affirming care isn't helping). I also expect there are many many men who have a sexual fantasy about being a woman, men seem to have sexual fantasies about all sorts of things, mostly it probably stays in their head, being a woman having sex is not that weird, it's when it's an obsession it's a real concern.
I have made this comment on the YT version as well. I don't know if it has any weight, and would like to hear others thoughts, happy to be dismissed.
I think that there is a further distinction to be made with some of the males and that is that there are those that are Sneaky Fuckers as described by John Maynard Smith. They may, as you noted, have AGP trait and use the opportunity that affords to have sexual relationships that may not have been available to them without taking on the character of the less dominate male e.g. Men that set up profiles on Lesbian dating apps. The SJW men that are very vocally supportive of men in womens sports and changing rooms. We are chimps after all.