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Lyn's avatar

I love the conversations so thank you both. You are the best.

What I love about your approach is the acceptance and respect as well as your curiosity. I have got so tired of all the shouting and 'I am right' thinking.

I do think the word 'pathologise' is best avoided and I was concerned about this after the excellent conference. It was the one issue I felt uneasy about.

I think Dr Blanchard is correct to say that this cannot all now be put back in the box. What a shame it was so forced and dictated by Stonewall. I know other forces were already at play, but the no-debate, oven-ready set of rules were destined to not help trans people, in my view. Bad policy always causes division, and confusion, and this was a very unhelpful diktat.

So I hope the honest but non-confrontational, respectful discussions and evidence-based ideas, plus lovely humour, will continue to move things forward. More research and understanding are essential, plus training for therapists - that is not ideologically led. X

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Anne's avatar

Love you Stella and Sasha.

💐💝

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